The background of the story is this:
I was dating a guy I met this summer. We hit it off. I knew he was separated from his wife for a year, living on his own and very near to being eligible for a divorce. In my state you have o separated for a year to be able to divorce. He always said it was over for him yet she just kept begging him to come back, but he refused. I fell for him pretty hard and I know he liked me too but always seemed distant. Anyone it came to a point where he kinda cut me off I asked but he would really not explain.
the dream:
I was asked to go to a wedding, his wedding and I refused because I was not invited. Someone told me I was invited found and showed me the invitation. I went. I was standing aside with my friends while all the other guests were sitting and waiting. Someone then told me he called off the wedding with his ex-wife but the ceremony would take place without her, just to celebrate. celebrate what ? i don’t know. it seemed we waited for hours and finally it started his mother came down the aisle dressed in white with some other family members of his. and after waiting a bit longer he finally came down the aisle in a hurry kind of in a rush, barefoot. he walked past me caught my eye, stopped turned around reached his hand out to me like he wanted to come back and talk but turned around and ran off.
ok last nite i texted him , i wanted him to come over. this morning he sends me a message finally that he really wants to see me but is reconciling with his wife and he trying to be truthful. He said he still isnt sure what hes going to do but I guess hes gonna wait and see what happens.
i just remebered this dream after speaking to him today.
what does this mean?
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Your dream is a combination of your Imagination, hallucination, assumption and anticipation of an inconcluded episode of your life’s most delicate moments. Just take life as it comes, if doors gets closed there is always opportunity to open windows and vice versa. Dont worry be happy take life light, think that you have lost nothing instead your guy has lost your good and warm company by being unstable. Bye take care.
You fell hard for him and it’s hard to let go. You want him to still want you like he did before. Regardless though he is going to move on with his marriage.
You will be a better person if you move on as well and let him know that the only way you will ever consider a real relationship with him again is if he is free and clear as in “divorced”. He will actually respect you so much more if you give him the space & allow him to reconcile with his wife. If things don’t work out between the 2 of them, he will run back to you but you will have to stand your ground that you will have nothing to do with him until he is divorced but be polite and respectful about it. At that point he will then seriously consider divorce because he will not want to spend the rest of his life miserable. This will not occur if you don’t allow him to reconcile with his wife first. As tough as this may be for you, your going to have to let him go & let this play itself out.