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Do You Think This Means Breakup?

Sun, 21 Feb 2010 14:28:32 +0000

a friend, cam, and i were talking about people he likes or whatever, and i asked him if he could keep a secret. then i told him that things werent going to well in my relationship with stephen. this is really hard to say, and really hard to talk about. but he gets so mad at me all of the time. i feel like we are arguing everyday now. when im with him, im sure hes the guy for me. everything is (usually) perfect. but when were texting, or just talking, he gets so mad at me, for everything. i tell him i have homework to do, i need to go? he gets mad. i tell him i walked to class today at upj with a gay guy? he gets mad. i tell him a straight guy talked to me for a little bit? he gets mad. hes always been protective, but its becoming way too overbearing now. a few things have been happening. talking to cam today like, opened the floodgates and now i cant stop crying. last night, stephen told me he was going to his school’s basketball game with an old guy friend. this was like, 8:30. then at 10:45, he texts me saying he just got home from some bar thing with him and other friends, including girls. thats okay with me, because he should be allowed to have friends. but its not okay that he thinks i should easily accept that, and it is prefectly fine for him to get mad at me over anyone else. compare straight girls outside of school hanging out with him to a gay guy walking with me to class?!?! and the way other guys treat me compared to stephen? the cafeteria at school was out of juice, so a new guy friend bought me juice today. he went out of his way to do that for me. stephen used to do that kind of stuff. but he quit. i still do things like that for him, and pay for a lot of things when were together. its like im doing all of the work in the relationship, and hes just getting sex. i feel soo used sometimes. and like, hes so controling. this hurts me so much. i just let it show today.
im babysitting now, but were going to talk about it in a little bit. it tears me apart to think that there could be an end to us. but i feel like crap whenever stephen gets mad at me. we planned for forever. i always wear a promise ring. pre-engagement. looking at how it really is, and talking with cam for a little, im not sure i want to be in this. stephen and i had an argument a couple weeks ago because i felt he didnt love me anymore. i think that is how i feel about us now. its always arguing and questioning love. i might suggest we take a break, actually. see how things are not together. i just dont want this relationship to get controlling and for him to become abusive. but when i look him in the eyes today, i know i wont be able to say what i want to say to him.
does this sound like we should take a break? i dont want to hurt him and his family (they all love me), my family (they all love him) or make him really mad at me. but i dont want to be living like this. its like we only do what we need to to make it through the day. does it sound like we should break up? take a break? or should i just get over myself?
i just dont want a huge argument to happen, and for us to fight break up over something, and be left on bad terms. i feel this way, we could at least still be civil. i know he will get so mad at me, though. weve been together for two years (with a one day breakup in there) and he would devote so much to me and our realtionship. i dont know where everything went… i dont know what to do anymore.

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What Do You Think?

Sun, 21 Feb 2010 00:24:46 +0000

I don’t know where to start with this, really. About 3 months from Christmas, my boyfriend started teasing me about what I was getting. We’ve been together for a long
time now, and as cheesy as it may sound, from the way that he was acting about it, I thought he might be getting an engagement ring. The months went on, and still he teased me about it. After hearing some comments my young brother made (apparently not realizing, lol), and seeing how my boyfriend acted, I was almost sure that I was right.
A week or so before Christmas, he buys his gift..and he tells me it will be a hard hit financially…this is when I know I’m right…2 days before Christmas, he takes it back, and gets a bunch of other gifts for me for Christmas. He said he had something bigger planned, but it would have to wait a little while.
Obviously, it devistated me. It’s not weighing on me as much as before, because he sounds so sincere about it…What do you think? Was he wrong, or should I trust that its better?

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How Involved Do Think Pastors Should Be In A Member’s Wedding Or Engagement?

Sat, 20 Feb 2010 06:50:52 +0000

My daughter is 25 years old and a member of my church. The pastors fee slighted that m daughter is engaged and they have not met her husband to be. My daughter is not getting married at our church. I do not understand what the big deal is.

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How Do I Know If I’m “in Love” With My Boyfriend. I Don’t Think I Am Anymore!! Help!?

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 06:39:42 +0000

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I’m 20 years old (soon to be 21) and we’ve been together since we were 17.
He’s really great and claims he loves me more than anything.
He’s really loving and if he has the money, he’ll buy me anything I want. But I just feel like something’s missing. I never want to kiss him, or hug him. And if I do, I pull away. I know it hurts his feelings, but I can’t help it.
Plus, he’s lied so much in the past. About stupid things, mostly. But a lot of other things that I took seriously. I think he’s a compulsive liar.
For example, we both stopped smoking cigarettes at the same time. I was so proud that we did it.. but only to find out he’d been smoking behind my back and lying about. I found out and he said he’d never do it again because it was something we were supposed to do together, then a year later i found out he’d been lying for the WHOLE past year and that he was smoking still and never quit. Then the next year it happened again. Well, now he is supposedly not smoking or anything. But he lies so much I don’t know what to believe anymore. That’s not the only thing he’s lied about..it’s just one of the big ones.
I don’t mean to blame him for everything, but he was the first real relationship I ever had and my “first” and only.
I hate feeling like this and it hurts my feelings but I can’t ever see myself marrying him. One reason is because he spent everybit of money he had saved up for my engagement ring on cigarettes each day at work. So, i HATE cigarettes even more. haha! But, what should I do?
Everything seems perfect now, as in I don’t think he’s lying anymore. But then I have this little voice saying “How do you know?”.
I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I’m gettin’ to the point where I can’t stand him. Everything he says gets on my nerves and makes me mad. I try to be nice, but it’s just an act. I don’t know what to do.
I just need help!
Any advice would be appreciated.

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How Do I Know If I’m “in Love” With My Boyfriend. I Don’t Think I Am Anymore!! Help!?

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 00:40:37 +0000

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Wives, Would You Be Mad?husbands Would You Even Think About Doing This?

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 06:23:48 +0000

Sorry if this is longish but will make it as short as I can.
Talked to my sister in law Friday night and she was spitting fire!
Her and her husband knew one of his ex co-workers wedding was coming up. The guy called to get their address. My SIL only checks her mail once every 1-2wks.
She checked it that evening, around 5ish and there was the invite for THAT night at 7. She called her husband to let him know–he was at a friends house working on something.
Anyways, she reads the invite and he says, then he better get home and chang so he can find the place–no mention of taking his wife to the wedding!
He came home, showered,dressed and left without so much as asking her if she wanted to go–she had met this guy a few times in the past.
They have been fighting ever since, she is still not talking to him as of today!
Wives, would you be mad if your husband went to a wedding without you? Men, would you not even think about asking your wife to go with you?
I have to agree with my sil, I am sure I would be very mad also! Then again, I don’t think my husband would every think of doing something like that.

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What Do U Think Of A Sweetheart Neck Line For A Church Wedding ??

Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:43:36 +0000

Im the bride and I just bought my gown last nite and its a sweetheart neckline. Is this appropirate for a church wedding ??
I took a lady from church and my FML with me and they said its ok.
What do u think ??

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I Don’t Think She Likes The Engagement Ring I Had Given Her? Should I Buy Her A New One?

Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:23:33 +0000

I just ask my long time girlfriend to marry me, I gave her an engagement I had made for her the ring holds 7 generations of the ladies in my family diamonds from their engagement rings. I think she doesn’t like it because she didn’t react or have then expression that she would when she likes something. I don’t know what to do buy her a new ring the one she wants? and take back my families ring?

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Is It Crazy To Think That We Can Make Our Marriage Work?

Sun, 07 Feb 2010 20:16:25 +0000

My wife was involved in and adulterous affair at the time that we began dating The guy she was with was as big a piece of crap as there ever was, married with 3 small children, 2 ex-wives and several kids that he no longer had contact with. He is also 25 yrs. older than my wife and I. When I think that she was attracted to such a snake and was able to overlook the disturbing truth about what kind of guy he was it makes me sick. The only positive qualities he possesses are that he is wealthy and obviously a smooth talker. She somehow decided that remaining friends with him was important enough for her to risk our marriage and the destruction of our family. In order for them to remain friends they chose to continue lying and deceiving me for 10 years. We had a very good marriage before I stumbled upon the truth of their relationship, now I feel like I have never really known her at all. She is the same woman who I have witnessed stuggle to tell the smallest of lies and cannot miss Sunday mass, yet she never saw the harm of haveing anything to do with this man. She even invited he and his wife to our wedding. I have tried to make this work but I am growing tired and don’t know if this is something that I want in my life. I don’t know if I will ever be able to fully trust her again, I have lost a tremendous amount of respect for her, considering she has shown none for me. I love my kids more than anything and just want them to have a normal childhood but I don’t know if I cand pretend everything is OK for much longer.

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What Do You Think Of Husband And His Ex Wife?

Sat, 30 Jan 2010 19:07:13 +0000

My husband had been divorced from his prior wife a year before I met him. They were together for ten years or so. They also have children together. She cheated on him with another woman and he divorced her. He didn’t want the divorce but she wanted a different lifestyle. We have been married now for a little over four years and also have one child together. My problem is that in the first year of dating he hid his wedding band in our basement that he had with her. When I found it he said he wanted to sell it on ebay.My thoughts, yeah right!! He has always let her dictate what goes on with his life. She is always causing problems and is now calling me names and getting me involved. It is almost like she is jealous of me. He used to talk to her on the phone and listen to her problems until i put a stop to it.He also brought pictures of her to our new home and hid them in our attic. They were pictures of their wedding and pictures of her in very minimal clothing. He listens to these sappy love songs such as “every other weekend”, (which is a song about divorce and still being in love with the ex) “can’t let you go” by matchbox twenty, “i miss my friend”. Makes cds of them and also puts them on his mp3 player. This raises a brow but not sure if I am looking too much into it. He has let her involve herself in every aspect of our lives. When I had our son she came over to see the baby and left the house quickly all upset, when we moved she invited herself in when I told her no (she asked him after I said no).She is always trying to involve herself with his family still and his friends. I can go on and on about this but I have put my foot down and told him that I am done with him letting her get her way with everything. It seems like he is doing something about it but only when I say something to him. I am ready to pack my bags because she is disrupting my life and I can’t take the poison anymore. Do you think hubby still has feelings? Are things only going to get worse??

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