San Antonio Free Classified Ads » Wedding Rings http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog Texas Classified Ad Placement Tue, 13 Jul 2010 12:30:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 en hourly 1 After All This Time, Do I Confess To Her Parents The Truth? [long]? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/after-all-this-time-do-i-confess-to-her-parents-the-truth-long.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/after-all-this-time-do-i-confess-to-her-parents-the-truth-long.html#comments Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:23:14 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/after-all-this-time-do-i-confess-to-her-parents-the-truth-long.html My story is kinda complicated. I dated a girl for 3 1/2 years when I was in California. The more time that passed with us the more lies were given. When her brother landed in prison, my gf at the time told me all details but her parents pulled her aside and asked her if I know and she told them no. Thats when the first lie was born.
Then I had to move away and on the last day we spent before I moved she had made an attempt on her life but I stopped her from doing it. She told me I can’t watch her 24/7 and once I tried to hide the sharp objects she told me. I can always overdose on my medicine. I pulled her aside and told her everything was going to be OK. She told me never to tell her step-father and mother the truth. A Choice that has bothered me from that moment on. Her parents got home and she acted like nothing happened.
As I moved away and as time passed this bothered me more than her as I tried to get her to just tell them what happened. She told me if I ever tell them any lie we have told them that she would cut off our friendship and never talk to me again. She even came to the point where I caught her in lies to where she told me she told them the truth and she is going to therapy. Convinced me she told them the truth and it wasn’t as bad as she thought.
Now she got so desperate she got back with her ex (the one before me, who actually admitted to cheating on her when she was with me). It just got worse with them as they both agreed to get engaged over Christmas. She would talk to me on the phone about how much money he has (he knows how to use and control her because money is why I had to move away from her), the ring and all the stuff he is buying her love with. It bothered me to the point to where I was hurt and sent a nasty email to her. “I said you are full of lies”, “If you don’t tell your parents the truth it will get worse” I even said I have a audio confession on tape I will play for your parents if you don’t tell them the truth” (Which is something I did a while back that has her admitting that she tried to kill herself)
She must of got upset by that email because she forwarded it to her parents. They replied back telling me not to contact her again or they will get the police involved or take me to court. I replied to her parents email saying I was sorrying if I offended anyone and I respect his wishes. I don’t know if they read it. Her mom is still friends with me on MySpace so maybe they don’t hate me as much as I am thinking. Since then I haven’t talked to her in over a month. I have been thinking that her parents probably questioned her about the email which mean either explain the letter or she told another lie. She might of lied to cover her *** and told them I was just being jealous but if her parents think that I wrote that because I was jealous then they are wrong. I just wanted her to be honest with her parents about what happened. Maybe had some jealous because of the engagement but the letter had nothing to do with her “engagement”. What should I do? I have been restricted on my cell phone so I can’t call her for 90 days (she did this before, which is another thing that set me off). I can’t call her house line I don’t know it. The only thing I can do is record me talking on a web cam and talk about everything from my perspective. The suicide attempt, her brother and try and explain myself. Maybe even include that recorded conversation I taped so they believe I am telling the truth. Should I try and clear the air with her parents by confessing the truth or leave it be. I think it is her parents and maybe the fiancee from having me contact her. I think my ex just got upset and created this bad situation for her. She knows if she contacts me that maybe her parents will start to think that what I wrote in that letter was the truth. I do believe my ex wants to talk to me but can’t because of the lie she had to tell them to protect herself. All she does is lie and her parents don’t see it. They think she is a perfect little angel.

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/after-all-this-time-do-i-confess-to-her-parents-the-truth-long.html/feed 10 Is It Ok For 14 Year Olds To Engage In Sexual Behavior? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/is-it-ok-for-14-year-olds-to-engage-in-sexual-behavior.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/is-it-ok-for-14-year-olds-to-engage-in-sexual-behavior.html#comments Mon, 22 Feb 2010 06:49:54 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/is-it-ok-for-14-year-olds-to-engage-in-sexual-behavior.html i am adding to my last question. some of the answers were helpful. some not so much. well i bought her a $899 dollar ring to show her i love her. shes worn it for 3 years. i bet your wondering how i got the money. i mow a **** load of yards a day usually 9 or 10 a day for 80 each (really depending on yard size). but well i think we already hit 1, 2, and 3rd base. she loves me i love her. but my mom says its puppy love. yeah wait till she sees where my junior bank account went. but i want to have sex with someone who means the world to me. and that’s where my question comes up. i personally think it would be appropriate to have my sexual engagement with her. because we’ve been “going out” for 6 years since we were 8. so we practically know everything about each other. no secrets. not even deep personal ones which cut diamond. so i thought I’d ask the community if i should be the one to light her candle up.

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/is-it-ok-for-14-year-olds-to-engage-in-sexual-behavior.html/feed 11 How Do I Let Go Of My Anger Of Feeling Unimportant? How Do I Get This Off Of My Mind And Out Of My Head? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-do-i-let-go-of-my-anger-of-feeling-unimportant-how-do-i-get-this-off-of-my-mind-and-out-of-my-head.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-do-i-let-go-of-my-anger-of-feeling-unimportant-how-do-i-get-this-off-of-my-mind-and-out-of-my-head.html#comments Mon, 22 Feb 2010 00:25:57 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-do-i-let-go-of-my-anger-of-feeling-unimportant-how-do-i-get-this-off-of-my-mind-and-out-of-my-head.html Explaination of reasons I am anger. (shortened versions)
1.Engagement. Woke me up on my couch. Let’s go shopping. Rushed me, only had 30 minutes before the store closed.
2. After picking out ring, drops me off at my house. Made me feel like he was regreting it, wanted to be alone.
3. Go in the morning to sons game. He walks me over to this rock, says I guess I should ask you to marry me. Lasted 2 minutes. After the game, his son came over and he told his son. Son didn’t have much of reaction. Went to the pool with friends. Spent the night with friend. Wanted to make sure his son heard about our engagement from him and no one else. Understandable, but no one knew but us at this point.
4.He didn’t want to celebrate with me, make love to me. He was only concerned about his son. I didn’t hear anything from him until the next day. I spent my evening having hot choclate with a friend, upset how all this went down.
THAT WAS OUR ENGAGEMENT. NOW HEAR ARE OTHER THINGS THAT HAVE GONE ON THAT HAVE HURT ME.
Beginning of relationship, showed me e-mails to previous girlfriend.
One year later, I found where he had been trying to see where she moved. Directions to her home.
(during this time I was head over heals for him, and was doing everything for him)
Took a balloon ride on his birthday one year, had a friend come back to the house and set up the table with wine ect… He had no interest.
I would put notes in his lunch, in his car, lots of extra things…
I have made special dinners, trying to make it romatic. He blows me off. Computer, son, more important. Even co-workers, strangers.
example: can stop and buy coffee for co-workers, but I have asked him to bring me a flower, bottle of wine, refused. Said not if I ask him, quit asking, might. Did. He never has. All I want is to feel like I matter as much as the computer and his son. I may sound jealous of his son by this, I’m not. A lot has gone on that is unfair., Our wedding even revolved around his son games. He took him to the pool the day of our wedding, in his suit. I didn’t find this out until our honeymoon. I would have thought that our wedding day would have been more important. Sounds like he was rushing around trying to please his son.
Honeymoon, he didn’t want to take a shower with me. Said we’ve already done this.. I brought body chocolate, I made a fool of myself. He wanted to stay in the room. We got massages, but he wanted to do them separate. (had even made the comment that heard guys get arroused when getting massages) I feel the honeymoon was more about a vacationa and rest for him than a couple thing.
Also informed me that he had dropped off this plastic to the women for painting. A previous co-woker. She wasn’t home. Sat on her front porch. Just wanted me to know incase we ran into her and she thanked him. A women I’ve never met. A women he’s had no contact with. Except her calling for a job. Yet, he tells me he knew what the call was about. She was divorced now and her husbands stuff was out of the house. Long story.
But, he didn’t help me get my home sold. He didn’t give me plastic when I needed it for painting. I had asked months prior to this.
When my son asked about the women in mexico. He stated it was easy on the eyes. This is not what I wanted to hear. I wanted him to let my son know in his eyes I was the most beatiful to him.
This is a man who supposily was a marriage counselor for a church at one time. Has read every book. Why isn’t he putting the effort into this marriage? His ex had two affairs on him. He states he was a good husband and faithful.
During our dating relationship he use to feel guily about having sex with me. He would say afterward, we shouldn’t have.
During the first 6 months of marriage he showed little interest in sex with me. I was a little obsessed with his contact with the women he dropped the plastic off to. But I still tried to make romatic evenings. But would become angry when I got no reponse or blown off.
This women had come up to his work to get more plastic at a later date, 1 month later. He wouldn’t tell me anything, only if I directly asked.
He didn’t even tell good friends of his he got married. They e-mailed wanting to know when, where and who? This hurt, I’d been married 9 months at this point.
This plastic women, when I asked him if he told her he was married, he didn’t know. Then at a later date said she called for a job, he told her he was married. Says he hasn’t heard anything from her since.
My logic tells me that he’s still lying. My heart wants to believe him. He isn’t a bad person. But, he doesn’t seem to care about how he makes me feel.
I want very much to forgive and forget. How do I, when I still feel unimportant. How do I trust he’s telling me the truth? There are many more reasons for how I am feeling. But I couldn’t possibly explain it all. Hope th

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-do-i-let-go-of-my-anger-of-feeling-unimportant-how-do-i-get-this-off-of-my-mind-and-out-of-my-head.html/feed 4 Do You Think This Means Breakup? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/do-you-think-this-means-breakup.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/do-you-think-this-means-breakup.html#comments Sun, 21 Feb 2010 14:28:32 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/do-you-think-this-means-breakup.html a friend, cam, and i were talking about people he likes or whatever, and i asked him if he could keep a secret. then i told him that things werent going to well in my relationship with stephen. this is really hard to say, and really hard to talk about. but he gets so mad at me all of the time. i feel like we are arguing everyday now. when im with him, im sure hes the guy for me. everything is (usually) perfect. but when were texting, or just talking, he gets so mad at me, for everything. i tell him i have homework to do, i need to go? he gets mad. i tell him i walked to class today at upj with a gay guy? he gets mad. i tell him a straight guy talked to me for a little bit? he gets mad. hes always been protective, but its becoming way too overbearing now. a few things have been happening. talking to cam today like, opened the floodgates and now i cant stop crying. last night, stephen told me he was going to his school’s basketball game with an old guy friend. this was like, 8:30. then at 10:45, he texts me saying he just got home from some bar thing with him and other friends, including girls. thats okay with me, because he should be allowed to have friends. but its not okay that he thinks i should easily accept that, and it is prefectly fine for him to get mad at me over anyone else. compare straight girls outside of school hanging out with him to a gay guy walking with me to class?!?! and the way other guys treat me compared to stephen? the cafeteria at school was out of juice, so a new guy friend bought me juice today. he went out of his way to do that for me. stephen used to do that kind of stuff. but he quit. i still do things like that for him, and pay for a lot of things when were together. its like im doing all of the work in the relationship, and hes just getting sex. i feel soo used sometimes. and like, hes so controling. this hurts me so much. i just let it show today.
im babysitting now, but were going to talk about it in a little bit. it tears me apart to think that there could be an end to us. but i feel like crap whenever stephen gets mad at me. we planned for forever. i always wear a promise ring. pre-engagement. looking at how it really is, and talking with cam for a little, im not sure i want to be in this. stephen and i had an argument a couple weeks ago because i felt he didnt love me anymore. i think that is how i feel about us now. its always arguing and questioning love. i might suggest we take a break, actually. see how things are not together. i just dont want this relationship to get controlling and for him to become abusive. but when i look him in the eyes today, i know i wont be able to say what i want to say to him.
does this sound like we should take a break? i dont want to hurt him and his family (they all love me), my family (they all love him) or make him really mad at me. but i dont want to be living like this. its like we only do what we need to to make it through the day. does it sound like we should break up? take a break? or should i just get over myself?
i just dont want a huge argument to happen, and for us to fight break up over something, and be left on bad terms. i feel this way, we could at least still be civil. i know he will get so mad at me, though. weve been together for two years (with a one day breakup in there) and he would devote so much to me and our realtionship. i dont know where everything went… i dont know what to do anymore.

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/do-you-think-this-means-breakup.html/feed 2 How Does Getting Engaged Work? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-does-getting-engaged-work.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-does-getting-engaged-work.html#comments Sun, 21 Feb 2010 07:30:34 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-does-getting-engaged-work.html i know this is different for everyone… but i want to know what you think.
is it one big moment where you “pop the question” or is it an ongoing discussion where you finally come to the conclusion that you want to get married?
after deciding that you want to get married, how long do you wait to start talking about the practical matters? (i.e. how long of an engagement you want, what kind of wedding, etc)
what about the ring? does the guy buy it before he proposes, or does the girl help pick it out after the fact? if she helps pick it out, how long do you wait to buy it? does the guy get a ring too?
how do you break the news? how long do you wait to tell friends, family, coworkers? is it a casual announcement or a big deal?
how long do you think you should date before you get engaged? how long should you be engaged for? how old should you be? (i realize that everyone is different, but what is your personal opinion on the matter?)
i’m 22 and my boyfriend is 25. we’ve been dating for almost 3 years and i have a feeling that a proposal in coming soon… i want to know what i’m in for haha.
thanks for any and all opinions on the matter!

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/how-does-getting-engaged-work.html/feed 6 What Do You Think? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/what-do-you-think.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/what-do-you-think.html#comments Sun, 21 Feb 2010 00:24:46 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/what-do-you-think.html I don’t know where to start with this, really. About 3 months from Christmas, my boyfriend started teasing me about what I was getting. We’ve been together for a long
time now, and as cheesy as it may sound, from the way that he was acting about it, I thought he might be getting an engagement ring. The months went on, and still he teased me about it. After hearing some comments my young brother made (apparently not realizing, lol), and seeing how my boyfriend acted, I was almost sure that I was right.
A week or so before Christmas, he buys his gift..and he tells me it will be a hard hit financially…this is when I know I’m right…2 days before Christmas, he takes it back, and gets a bunch of other gifts for me for Christmas. He said he had something bigger planned, but it would have to wait a little while.
Obviously, it devistated me. It’s not weighing on me as much as before, because he sounds so sincere about it…What do you think? Was he wrong, or should I trust that its better?

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/what-do-you-think.html/feed 28 Advice On Letting The Father Of My Baby In The Delivery Room–(sorry It’s So Long)? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/advice-on-letting-the-father-of-my-baby-in-the-delivery-room-sorry-its-so-long.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/advice-on-letting-the-father-of-my-baby-in-the-delivery-room-sorry-its-so-long.html#comments Sat, 20 Feb 2010 19:01:46 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/advice-on-letting-the-father-of-my-baby-in-the-delivery-room-sorry-its-so-long.html I’m 14w2d pregnant with my first baby. I was engaged when I got pregnant and everything was perfectly fine. However, over Thanksgiving, we broke up. I had huge issues with his sister. My ex and I were planning a housewarming party and his sister ever so willingly, did my registry with my fiance and didn’t even ask if it was okay. She sent out invitations to her side of the family, but not mine. Also, she told me the date and it was on my grandfather’s birthday and I told them my conflict and his entire family got mad at me. Not to mention the fact that she bought my baby’s first outfit. I just feel like she’s taking over. The thing is, my ex took up for her, and totally abandoned me and purposely made me seem selfish and told his family that I was being a B****. Some of it may seem trivial, but the fact is that he didn’t even try to see things from my perspective, as it had been that way for several months, and I just couldn’t take anymore. He and his sister both ganged up on me, telling me I was crazy, when all I did was calmly explain my feelings. He just completely changed all of a sudden and I found out that he was inviting girls to move in with him and he was slandering my name in e-mails to people, which they forwarded to me. And they threatened to take me court over my engagement ring and my baby.
Ever since the breakup, I’ve received several threatening texts and e-mails from both my ex and his sister, telling me that he’s going to get full custody, he’s going to make the baby have his last name, and he’s going to have all the rights. I know he can’t do this, but it really got to me, and caused me unnecessary stress to the point where I was actually throwing up from crying so much. He talked to his attorney and now that he found out that I have all the power, he’s been sucking up to me, but again, harassing me. I’ve logged all the times he’s called when I’ve told him to stop, he just doesn’t get it.
Basically, I wanted to get some opinions on whether or not I should let my ex be in the delivery room with me. I just can’t seem to get over all the stress he has caused me. My take on it is if he couldn’t man up then, he sure as hell can’t do it now. Why should he be there watching me go through all the pain, knowing that he will just cause me stress? I don’t want him touching me, I don’t want him near me. The thought of it makes me cringe. He didn’t even help me look for insurance and because of him not helping me or supporting me, I had to apply for Medicaid and WIC and just lost the best OB/GYN because she doesn’t accept Medicaid. I’m just really bitter, but I am trying not to be selfish. I have done everything else alone (dr’s appts, paying out of pocket for appts, applying for medicaid, etc) why not at the delivery as well?
Sorry so long! Just pissed!

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/advice-on-letting-the-father-of-my-baby-in-the-delivery-room-sorry-its-so-long.html/feed 21 I Am Pregnant And My Boyfriend Won’t Marry Me. The Thought Of Having A Child Out Of Wedlock Scares Me!? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/i-am-pregnant-and-my-boyfriend-wont-marry-me-the-thought-of-having-a-child-out-of-wedlock-scares-me.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/i-am-pregnant-and-my-boyfriend-wont-marry-me-the-thought-of-having-a-child-out-of-wedlock-scares-me.html#comments Sat, 20 Feb 2010 12:58:12 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/i-am-pregnant-and-my-boyfriend-wont-marry-me-the-thought-of-having-a-child-out-of-wedlock-scares-me.html I am 43 and left my ex husband 4 years ago. I met a guy (now my live in boyfriend) 14 months ago at work. He was the cleaner and didn’t tell me his father was my boss at work til our 5th date. I was unsure at that stage to continue dating him because mixing business and pleasure together usually doesn’t work.
He had not told me about his financial difficulties until he convinced me to move out and sell the family home which I did and I bought a cheaper house for me and my 3 children to move into. My boyfriend is 9 years young than myself 33. I moved in here Nov 08 and he moved in Dec 08. It was in March he told me about being in $60k debt and his parents were tired of helping him and didn’t trust him. I met several time with his parents to come to some arrangement. His parents did help him but I also did by adding $40k to my mortgage and he agreed to pay me back $600/wk. Then in July, I found by a deleted email he didn’t empty that he had a 9 yo daughter he’d been hiding from me, he owed another $8,000 maintenance, I added this to my mortgage and made him sign an agreement for the total to pay me back witnessed by my friend. His excuse was each time he couldn’t tell me because he was scared to lose me. He lives with me and doesn’t contribute for food, rent, gas, electricity, water, nothing because he is paying me the $600/wk for the loan. Which I did know and this isn’t the problem.
I’ve asked him for nothing except to stop all the lies and going behind my back with secrets and he swears there is nothing else. I kind of believe him. His parents are wonderful people and they understand what I’ve been through with him.
I found out that I was pregnant and today, I am near 13 weeks, I asked him if we could get married before the baby is born and he said ‘No, I’ll marry you after the baby is born when I can afford it’ I said to him, ‘If its because of the expense of an engagement ring, I don’t expect one, you can get me one further down the track when you can afford it but it means alot to me to have my last child in wedlock and not out of wedlock being a catholic and I want to have it christened’ He didn’t care and said there was no way he’d marry me without an engagement ring, I asked him if this was an excuse to get out of marrying me and he said no, he just wanted to do it right, I said to do it right would be to get married and not have an illegitament child. He disagreed.
Am I being fooled by this man? Is this just another lie after the many before hand, is this just his way to get out of committing to me. If I have to do this alone I will. I’m so lost and confused and really need some wise answers or some wise questions I should ask him to find out where his mind is at. Thank you.

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/i-am-pregnant-and-my-boyfriend-wont-marry-me-the-thought-of-having-a-child-out-of-wedlock-scares-me.html/feed 9 Why Would The Ex Use Me? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/why-would-the-ex-use-me.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/why-would-the-ex-use-me.html#comments Sat, 20 Feb 2010 06:51:14 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/why-would-the-ex-use-me.html Ok, its a bit of a story so bear with me. I am 26 and was with my Ex, who is 23 for about 5 years, we lived together for about 4 years and bought a house together in may last year. We started having problems around christmas, nothing too serious, just disagreeing on minor things like me leaving clothes on the floor or her working late and not calling to let me know she would be late home. Things sort of stared getting worse and by easter we were arguing about bigger things (her spending hundreds of dollars on clothes, shoes, clothes etc and me working a lot of overtime (I was saving for an engagement ring but she didn’t know that)). We decided to go to counselling, we went about once a fortnight and I thought things were starting to improve. Around halfway through July we turned up to our counselling session and the counsellor asked how we were and the Ex said, “its over, i’m leaving you” and walked out. I was gutted and left wondering where I went wrong. She moved out about 10 days later, bailed me up for about $20000 for her share of the house, most of the furniture and took the car. I copped it on the chin and went and bought a second hand car and furniture with the money I had saved up for an engagement ring. I was quite upset (understandably) and wound up going on antidepressants (lovan 40mg a day). I though I was starting to get back on track until today. I got a call from one of my Ex’s friends asking if I could talk. The friend had caught up with the Ex the night before and after a few drinks the Ex told her how she had just been staying with me (because I paid the mortgage, car, power etc) since easter whilst she was looking for her next boyfriend, when she found him she gave me the flick, the friend was horrified and pretty much left as soon could and though I should at least know what she did incase she changes her mind and wants to come back to me.
I feel like I was used and abused. Why would someone do this? I feel like I wont be able to trust any woman again because I will always be thinking “what if I get screwed over again” I am a nice guy, why did I waste 5 years on someone who does something like this? I feel like everyone is laughing at me and thinking “what a loser”.

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]]> http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/why-would-the-ex-use-me.html/feed 8 My Husband Is Preferring His Bestfriend Over Me? http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/my-husband-is-preferring-his-bestfriend-over-me.html http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/my-husband-is-preferring-his-bestfriend-over-me.html#comments Sat, 20 Feb 2010 01:23:45 +0000 http://sanantoniovendors.com/blog/wedding-rings/my-husband-is-preferring-his-bestfriend-over-me.html I told my husband I don’t want his bestfriend entering our new home, all due to his bestfriends past actions towards me. The first being, one time his friend was drunk at a party we were at and he put his knee on my butt as if he was playing around. But he did it hard and in front of his wife. He later apologized for that. I accepted his apology but still a little weary. Another incident, was at a wedding we were all at. We were all sitting at the same table at the wedding reception. I have to admit, I am very shy and a quiet person when I don’t know someone, especially infront of strangers. I don’t drink and I was tired at the end of the reception especially due to jet lag (from NYC to wedding in Colorado). His friend yelled at me and said “you don’t drink and don’t talk..what do you do!” My husband spoke to him about these two incidents , however the other 2 that I am going to mention he feels I overreacted. Did I? Another incident was when we went for a sit down dinner with some of his friends including my husband’s bestfriend. Well, after a long time of not seeing me everyone was looking at my engagement ring and saying wow how nice. His bestfriend later on, during his drinking spree, during a dinner conversation about wedding expenses began to say “Well you have to set your priorities about things either diamonds around an engagement ring ( which he was referring to my ring) or a house and car.” And he kept saying that with such sarcasm. Another incident was at our own wedding, he was in the bridal party, the guys were gathered together and laughing. I asked “What is going on?”, playing around. He told me, when the guys left the group, “Oh, get a life!”
My question is what should I do? Should I continue to ignore him and deal with him? My husband says that he is a a–hole and I am just taking him too seriously, that i should just ignore him. I don’t feel I can and I have tried to talk to my husband about all this but he says just ignore him. I have finally decided to just remove myself from the social scene of where his friend is. I don’t want anymore scenes and stupidy’s.Well, we are buying a house and he said he will want his friend to come to see us at the home. I said no. He said yes, and if I don’t want to see him I can leave and let him visit with his friend while I am gone from the our potentially new home. I think that is wrong. Isn’t the wife, me, a priority? Also, have I been overreacting?

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